Thursday, July 20, 2017



   I'm actually writing this piece straight from my heart and i just want you to know that one day soon, it would be said of you that you were here; so for the mean time, tread easily with utmost care.

I've actually gone through life feeling so bad that some people i cherished left so soon, but i taught myself to live with the painful reality as no man lives here forever.

One of my lone evenings, with my ear piece giving me good vibes from my phone, i went so deep in thought and i began to ask myself what people will remember me for when i finally leave planet earth...hmmm... i tell you, it was not really cool for me that i have to accept that one day i would be gone; but i braced myself up knowing that i must go someday just as so many that i knew left. Some even without prior notice, no good byes, or take care's but today i remember them for the many things they were to us, whether good or bad.

So Ebi, one day you will not be here anymore?  That was a big one for me tho but i remembered the many things God has purposed in my heart to become and fulfill so i had to gird my loins as i told myself that i needed to get to work as there was no time anymore to be a mediocre and wait for a perfect time; as it appeared that there are no perfect times. We just have to make every moment count and ensure that we stay purposeful always. 

I can boldly tell you this today that, the lone deep evening made me believe in myself and has encouraged me towards becoming the me you know now because i am aware of my leaving anytime i don't know for now... Do not get me wrong,i'm not dying anytime soon; i'm only preparing your mind that it would definitely be regarded of you that you were here someday.

My question for you is this; what would you be remembered for? 

You are here for a specific reason, find and fulfil it before He calls you home.

I have a strong conviction that i did not come to planet earth just to watch and leave....naaah...I came to make a difference, I came to give voice to a void, I came to solve the problems of young minds, i came to put smiles on the faces of people, I came here to inspire. I came here to fulfil God's intention for creating me.

At the end of the day, when it's recorded that i was here, i would smile while you hurt because that's the essence of my coming... to leave empty handed. SMILES


Author: verified_user

I am a prolific blogger, teen coach, mentor, author and the Chairman, Siaisiai Ebisidor Foundation ( a movement that puts a smile on the faces of children via providing access to education). I am very passionate about building healthy relationships, people living their best life the way God intended and lifting children up to love and growth.  I blog consistently and you should go see what I am up to.