Wednesday, December 27, 2017

PAIN FROM MY BRA...

PAIN FROM MY BRA...






Hello friends and family,

I bring you greetings from my janded empire today and i have a wonderful post to share with you and i really do hope it inspires and help someone out there.

When i was growing up, i had this bra that i just love to put on always. Trust me every lady can attest to this feeling and how we can go days with just that one bra..lol.. sometimes we even go as far as washing and wearing it the next day. 

I remember vividly when i was about 16 years of age, i had this pink bra that i almost killed just by wearing it. I did not have just that bra but the comfort i felt with that one was epic. I wore it always. One day while i was trying to wash it so i could put it on the next day, the worse happened...

Bra gone bad... The bone of the bra was out and there was no way it could be my best as the pain that came with it was unbearable;but i managed to put it on anyways and endured the pain when i'm out so no one knows the pain i'm hiding from them. 

One day, i was out with friends and i started feeling this excruciating chest pain that gave them concern but i just could not tell them it was the bone from my bra that was hurting me... awww.. if only i could remove the bra and be free again...lol. I endured the pain and ended up ruining the fun we were all having as they all suggested that i go home and relax. 

I went home and hurriedly went to my bathroom to take of the bra and all of a sudden i felt better again. WOW! What a great relief.

I removed the bone from the bra and that was the last day i set my eyes on the bra as i bade it goodbye for good. I just had to say no more to pains that i have to hide when i can stay healthy and better with no pain to hide. If you can relate with this bra experience of mine, please do say goodbye to that bra for good...lol

This is where i hit the nail on the head and buttress on the sole aim of this post today as i know we have so many ladies who have one pain they are going through and would not say a word simply because they do not want to be laughed at or mocked. But common, how long do you want to hide the pain and live in hurt?

Now, this post does not focus on just ladies or women only as the men too go through a lot but society in a way has sidelined them and focused her attention on women more. Everyone seems to have a battle they are fighting and pains they are hiding. If we can confide in each other, we could be better.

I heard of a lady who was being abused and molested by her husband but could not tell anyone for fear of being laughed at and she finally died of depression. People are going through a lot and the best thing they think about is just hiding in their shells and we loose them to silence... Okay, just a minute of silence for those who lost their lives staying mute, but we say NO to suffering and smiling today. Please, talk to someone, seek counsel from the right persons, express yourself and speak about your fears. 

If you can talk about it, it can get better. Say goodbye to the things and persons that hurt you. Say goodbye to abusive relationships that mess you up. No more hurts, no more pains, no more tears and no more enduring a situation because you think it's the best you can get.

When i gave up on my bra that hurt me badly which i loved,i probably felt i would not have another one but here i am today having so many to choose from and i feel no more pain; but i still have a favorite bra till date anyway..lol.. but it does not hurt. 

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In essence, i just need us to look out for each other and also try not to judge anyone who confides in us about their secret pains. Till i come your way again, remember the world is waiting to reckon with your uniqueness. Remain Janded!!!

Friday, December 8, 2017

14daysChallenge.Com

14daysChallenge.Com

Hey friends,I am really sorry for the long silence. It took me so long to write again after my last post and i sincerely apologize for that... somethings just happened...smiles. Feels good to be here again.

Over time, i have noticed how people find it extremely difficult to support or promote each other. I often hear them give excuses of them not achieving their own dreams and aspirations or even getting to a point to support others... My question for you is this "when do you want to support someone?" Because as a matter of fact the hustle stays real and you never stop pushing yourself. The best time to support that person who needs you in one way or the other is now. A little publicity on their behalf would go a long way.

So i took 14days to celebrate my friends and family who are doing one thing or the other on my social media platforms and i have come here to do same. Was it an easy task? Not at all but i did it anyway. So today, i will be showcasing them and few of their works so you can reach them and support them in your own little way.


DAY1
I started with my course mate mate back then in the university{ENO]. She is very intelligent and down to earth and today she is a fashion designer and i am super proud of her and the amazing things she is doing... Feel free to contact her for her designs as they are affordable and janded too. She delivers to anywhere in the world. Below are her works...








Contact:08066150795
IG:@nsike_eno. Stay amazing dear.



DAY2


I celebrated my darling brother Fredrick who is super intelligent and creative and amazingly he is into furniture making and sales of wears, shoes, cufflinks, bow ties and slim ties... Whatever you get from him can stand the test of time and stays for a very long time too. As a matter of fact, they are janded as he knows good stuff and has good taste for quality.

And i forgot to mention, they are affordable too.




























































Contact:08077819202
IG:@freddie_ds
Facebook: Fredrick.D.Siaisiai. Stay amazing dear.


DAY3

Lara was my choice for day3. She makes both male and female clothing and she is also a make up artist. Trust me when i say she is good at what she does. You can trust her with your bridal attires and other lovely and unique attires.



























Contact: 08157785804
IG:@larasmakeoverandcouture
Facebook: laras makeover and couture




DAY4
Helen my good friend from madonna university got my day 4 and i want to say iam super proud of her works. She is into cake making and her cakes tastes really yummy. Trust me when i say she leaves you coming back for more and more. Below are her works...























She is giving out 10% discount and free 6inch fruit cake or vanilla for the first 15 customers to place their orders plus free delivery within Abuja. Do you really want to miss this? Please reach her now and thank me later.

Contact:08035392521
IG:@ogys_cakes
Facebook:ogyscakes. Stay Amazing dear.


DAY5

My good friend Udoka from NYSC rocked my day5. He is supervising engineer and he does renovation works, design of buildings, bill costing, supervision of construction, project management, consulting for real estate development, procurement of materials, property sales, management and maintenance.

















Contact: 07037520881. Stay amazing dear.

DAY6
Benard, is an ibtelligent and creative young man i know. NYSC gave me a perfect gift to make my purpose fulfilling worthwhile and easy. Thank God i met you. Ben is an author of an amazing video book, first of it's kind. He is the Ceo Entrepreneurs Hive and he helps small businesses grow. Thinking of starting something, small or big, just reach out to him and thank me later.









Contact:08154285024
IG:@entrepreneurs_hive. Stay amazing dear.


DAY7
Meet Doutimi, my Bayelsa brother and good friend all the wy from secondary school. Very  calm, creative and understanding young man. He is into male clothing and he is super amazing when it come to unique and distinct styles. He is interested in making people janded. Call him and thank me later... He delivers to you anywhere you are.





















Contact:08066487710
IG:@dotcut86. Stay amazing dear.


DAY8
Dami was my choice for day8 and he is an amazing artist and muralist. If you need a beautiful portrait, a little touch in your homes, schools or place of work, you can call Dami and be glad you did. His prices are really affordable too.















Contact:08182118865
Facebook: Alaba Damilola Omotoyosi
IG:@mofarabale. Stay amazing dear.

DAY9
Meet Alexis, the Ceo Sixela Royal Shawarma. A fast growing spot in Portharcourt. If you need a good real taste of a janded shawarma, please find your way to Peter Odili Road, Opposite Lesuka and thank me later.




Stay amazing dear.



DAY10
My big sis rocked my day 10. She is multi-talented and i admire a lot. She makes beads, cakes and clothing[male and females}. She also does decorations as well. She is the Ceo Lee creations.





















Contact: 08030819250. Stay amazing deary.


DAY11

My amazing friend Mercy from secondary school rocked my day11 and i am super proud of the amazing things she is doing today. She is the Ceo MG wears and accessories and they specialize in both male and female attires, BESPOKE tailoring. She is also into makeovers.
@ebijanded

















 Email:mercygenevieve@yahoo.com
Contact:08164771167
Facebook:MG wears & Accessories
IG@:mercygenevieve. Stay amazing dear.

DAY
My big brother Kpodoh Michael rocked day 12. He is a man of few words, very intelligent and creative. He is a full time studio artist. He has done several exhibitions. Give yourself a good treat and make a portrait for you and your loved ones. He is good at what he does and i can recommend him anyday, anytime. Below are his works...


































Contact: 08033342474
Facebook:Kpodoh Michael
IG:@michaelkpodoh
Kpodoism@yahoo.com. Stay amazing dear.


DAY13
Nonye, my wonderful and strong friend. She sells lovely bags and very nice wigs at affordable prices.


















Contact: 08169549792
Facebook:@Uche Loveth
IG:mizsunshain. Stay amazing dear.


DAY14
My super talented big brother Kpodoh Dan rocked my day 14. He is the ceo Active play house.  Super talented and highly creative man i know.He is one of the most prolific and outstanding stage and film director in Nigeria. A Choreographer, dancer, catwalk instructor, event manager, festival curator and he is also a consultant for states and companies.

Below, are his works from Calabar carnivals, opening ceremonies to stage performances. If you need anything in this regard, you can call him and trust me when i say you would be glad you did.








































Contact:08035525042
 IG:@dankenhen,@activeplayhouse
 Facebook:Kpodoh Dan, Daniel Kpodoh,active playhouse.
 Email:dankenhen@gmail.com. Stay amazing dear.



 I also appreciate my friends who i did not showcase what they do; the truth is i believe in you all and i am super proud of all you all are doing. You can visit www.the_kingraphy.com and www. stylemeofficial.com and see what my amazing bloggers are doing.

Let us try our best possible to support each other.That little thing you can do for someone would go a long way and encourage them to forge ahead knowing someone somewhere believes in them. Meanwhile, you can leave your comment and suggest a new blog post from me and i promise to make you proud.

Till i come your way again, always remember the world is waiting to reckon with your own uniqueness. Stay Janded!